danger of assumptions

The assumptions that guide and control our everyday thinking and behaviors are generally helpful, saving us the trouble of having to consciously consider our every thought and movement.

Assumptions become dangerous and destructive, however, when they stand in the way of our progress and improvement as individuals and as a society.  We assumed our (flat) earth was at the center of the universe. We assumed that a particular ethnicity or gender was inferior to others.

A movie I recently saw reminded me of one of our contemporary, cherished assumptions. In K-Pax (2001), Prot is a character who claims to be visiting Earth from some distant planet. At one point, he describes the social structure of his home planet to his psychiatrist, Dr. Mark Powell. When Powell asks him about punishment on his planet, Prot responds as follows.

You humans, most of you, subscribe to this policy of an eye for an eye, a life for a life, which is known throughout the universe for its stupidity. Even your Buddha and your Christ had quite a different vision, but nobody’s paid much attention to them, not even the Buddhists or the Christians. You humans. It’s hard to imagine how you’ve made it this far.

Our assumption is that punishment and vengeance are necessary to keep individuals in society in check. We simply assume eye for eye and tooth for tooth. We assume that society has a right to its pound of flesh for every wrongdoing. We assume that vengeance is good and necessary, a God-ordained right. And it looks like the U.S. is very serious about this assumption. Consider the following.

  • The U.S. leads the world when it comes to prisoners per capita—730 incarcerated individuals for every 100,000 of the overall population. For comparison, we can look at some other countries: Russia (508), South Africa (310), Mexico (199), England and Wales (154), Canada (117), Italy (108), Germany (83), Switzerland (76), Japan (55).
  • The population of the U.S. is about 5% of the total world population. U.S. prison population is about 25% of the world prison population.
  • In 1980, about 350,000 people were incarcerated in the U.S. By the end of 2002, over 2 million people were incarcerated in the U.S. (at a cost of over $40 billion per year).
  • The majority of incarcerated individuals in the U.S. are people of color. The percentage of people of color is even higher on death row.
  • Prison sentences in the U.S. tend to be much longer than those in the rest of the world. The U.S. is one of only nine countries which has both the death penalty and life without parole. (The others are China, Comoros, Cuba, Israel, Kazakhstan, Lesotho, Nigeria, and Zimbabwe.

The purpose of this essay is to challenge the acceptance of our assumptions concerning equating punishment, retribution, vengeance, and getting even with justice. We need to think about alternatives, but that’s not the purpose of this particular essay.

When Dr. Powell asks Prot why he chooses to visit Earth, Prot says he likes to visit class BA-3 planets (early stage of evolution, future uncertain). He also really enjoys our fruits and vegetables.

For further reading on this subject, you may want to consider the following links. Much of the information listed above comes from these sources.

© panthera2, 2012.

people are mean

A few days ago I watched a movie that really disturbed me. Angels Crest (2011) is the story of a young father who, through careless indiscretion, is responsible for the death of his three-year-old son. (If you want to watch Angels Crest, I suggest you stop reading this post now and come back after you’ve seen the movie. Otherwise, what you read here could spoil it for you.)

Yes, this man did a terrible thing. Because of his carelessness and selfishness, a young child died. Even so, watching this grieving father struggling with incessant pain and suffering is heartbreaking.

Every hour of every day, he lives with painful memories and self-torment. He cannot forgive himself for his wrongful actions. He hates his very life, he despises who he is, but he can’t escape the reality of his own being.

Then, in addition to all the shame and self-loathing he already experiences within, his friends, family, and community heap on him even more shame, hatefulness, and hurt. There is little to no compassion for this hurting father. In a sense, he is lying on the ground trembling, and those who pass by (if they don’t go far out their way to avoid him), give him a little kick to make sure he knows how disgusting he is.

But this is not enough. The District Attorney’s office brings charges against the young father for negligence and abuse. So now the crippled, injured man is expected to defend himself. How does this make any sense? The prosecutor’s actions do nothing to bring healing to the community or to anyone else. Vengeance (eye for eye and tooth for tooth) only perpetuates the cycle of punishment and pain. Instead of promoting healing, it impedes any chances for a return to wholeness for anyone involved.

What is the matter with us? What are we thinking? Are we thinking?

When the day comes for the young father to present his plea, he is absent from the courtroom. His chair is empty. The movie ends with him out in the countryside, in the snow, dead from a self-inflicted gunshot wound.

Why not? What kind of life remains for him? Even if he could learn to forgive himself, he would never be forgiven by the community at large. Once the demonizing begins, it does not end. Once a monster, always a monster. There is no reconciliation. There is no healing. There is no peace.

© panthera2, 2012.

There just has to be a better way.